 When you accept yourself unconditionally, faults and all, it makes it so much easier to start working on these things within yourself. It inspires you to start digging through all of this garbage that we carry. Accepting yourself unconditionally makes you not want to carry it around anymore, because you start to say nice things to yourself; things like ‘wow I am so amazing! Why am I carrying all this junk with me?’ It's like you're a hoarder, living in a house for years and years and years. You're putting stuff in rooms and putting stuff in rooms. You're living with blinders on. You walk in the front door and you put all your stuff down. You sit on the couch and you stare at the television. Then you get dressed and you go to work. Then you come home and you put stuff up in the corners. You have your blinders on and you sit and your stare at television. You go back to work. You come home and you put down your stuff and you sit and you stare at the tv. And so on and so on and so on… One day you come home and you take off your blinders and you say: ‘Holy guacamole, Why is there so much stuff in here? Wow! My house is beautiful! Why do I have so much stuff in here? Let’s start cleaning this out!’ You are that beautiful house. As soon as you accept that you ARE that beautiful house, you will start cleaning out all of your rooms and cleaning out all of your closets. It will be a joyful process, even though it will be painful, because you will have to dig deep. It will be dirty. Sometimes you won't want to throw away the junk that you've been collecting. Sometimes you'll say ’But this is good stuff. This is pain that I've been carrying since I was 5 years old and it's been helping me, too.’ It's been helping you, but it's time to let it go. It's time to get rid of it. It's time to throw it away. Why Should I accept myself? So what's the point of all this? What do we do with all of this knowledge? We know that we're mean to ourselves. We know that we're not always kind. We know that we carry around all this junk. So what? Big deal, right? Clearing out this junk; dealing with all of this garbage; clearing away the muck and the tar and the yucky stuff that coats our soul, that damages our psyche; that makes us just feel like garbage; clearing all this stuff out will absolutely transform your life. It will change you down to your core. It will connect you to your soul. It will introduce you to your true self. It will allow you to hear the voice of your Divinity. It will help you to hear God. This is truth. This I promise you. You will never be the same, once you connect to that Divine Spirit within you.  How will accepting myself change my life? The Spirituality of Self, God, dwells within everyone of you. Every one of us houses a Divine piece of God, of the Light, of spirit, of Divinity, of whatever you want to call that higher power. There is a piece of it inside of each one of us. We are a Divine being, housed in a mortal vessel. That Divine being is always, always screaming for your attention. It is always trying to get us to behave in such a way that we embody unconditional love towards ourselves first, and then towards others. It starts from within and then it spreads outwards. Why does Divine act this way? Some people call it our conscience. Some people call it morals. It's like Jiminy Cricket on our shoulder. It has had many names throughout the centuries. This is the Divinity that dwells within each of us. Each and every person that is born on this Earth is a Divine Being in a mortal vessel. Every killer, every leader, every abuser, every celebrity, every perpetrator, every holy person, every villain, every single person is a Divine Being, born into a mortal vessel. They were twisted and by the life that they led… for some it was a life of pain and abuse that led them down a dark path. For others, that life led them towards the light. This is part 4 of a series of excerpt from Simple Spirituality of Self e-book channeled by me during my Awakening If you would like to read the entire book NOW for $3 and support the continuous exploration of this Awakening we all share- Click this link
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Unconditional Love of Self means that you love yourself without conditions. It means that you accept yourself as you are, right now, today, exactly as you are, where you are; warts and all. You accept yourself at the weight you are today. You accept yourself in the relationship you're in today. You accept yourself at the job you have today, making the amount of money that you make today, looking the way that you look today, acting the way that you act today, having done the 'bad' things that you've done. You accept yourself, feeling as crappy as you feel. You accept yourself and love yourself, despite of and because of the bad things that you've done; in spite of and because of the guilt that you carry. You love yourself more, because of the pain that you've been through. You love yourself more because of the shame that you carry. Why Should I Love Myself? What we need to understand about Unconditional Love for the Self is that IT is one of the most transformational keys that we have. Once you can master Unconditional Love for yourself, you can change every single part of your life. It changes how you see everything. It changes your perspective on every other thing that happens in your life. It will change your outlook on your job. It will change your outlook on your purpose. It will change your outlook on how you look. It will change your outlook on your relationship. It will change everything when you change how you see yourself, because really you're not the one who is changing.
What do you MEAN 'I'm not the one Changing?' Don't I have to CHANGE to love myself? All you're changing is how you see yourself. All you're changing is your perspective. All you're doing is saying ‘You know what it's okay that I'm not perfect- it's okay that I'm 30 pounds overweight -it's okay that I'm in a bad relationship and I am not ready to leave yet- it's okay that my job doesn't value me -I'll figure it out- it's okay that I haven't forgiven that person who hurt me back then - it's okay that I stole that thing’ Why is it okay that you did bad things? Why is it okay that those people hurt you and you haven't forgiven them? Because once you accept yourself where you are now, once you accept yourself, despite the bad things you’ve done, despite not forgiving others, now you can work on those issues. Now you can go back to those moments of pain that you are holding onto and you can look at them without judging yourself. You can say to yourself: -- I didn't forgive that person for hurting me in 10th Grade-- --oh my God all these years I've been holding on to that, you know what? I forgive you-- --that was stupid, I shouldn't be holding on to that anymore-- --wow, now i see that anytime somebody says something to me, I get just as mad at them as I got at you back when I was 15 years old-- -- but I'm not 15 years old now-- --now I’m 20-- now I'm 30-- now I’m 40-- now I’m 50 --now I’m grown-- -- I don't need to be acting like a teenager at work because somebody called me a name -- --I'm grown now-- When you accept yourself unconditionally, faults and all, it makes it so much easier to start working on these things within yourself. This is part 4 of a series of excerpt from Simple Spirituality of Self e-book channeled by me during my Awakening If you would like to read the entire book NOW for $3 and support the continuous exploration of this Awakening we all share- Click this link |
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